IF YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY,BE.

Did you make mistakes?Did you have terrible experiences?Whatever they are, you should let them go.There's nothing you can do about the past.So you'd better focus your energy on the present.You can only be happy if you become who you are.Don't live other people's life by trying to meet their expectations.People may expect you to have certain job or certain way of living but don't intimidated by them.Find who you are and be yourself.Being happy is easy if we are grateful.Unfortunately,seeing what we don't have is often easier than seeing what we have.Sometimes, we need to experience loss before appreciating what we have.Look at what you have and soon you will have plenty of reasons to be happy.Know how to control your mind and don't let negative thoughts come in.No matter how bad a situation seems, there is always something positive to take from it.To be happy you should have freedom and the most essential freedom is the freedom to choose.Freedom to choose requires the courage to take responsibility for your life.You shouldn't blame someone else when something goes wrong.You should use your talents to the fullest.Using your talents fully will make you even happier because of the saticfaction of doing your best.The way to be happy is make other happy first.Happiness doesn't come through selfishness but through selflessness.These are timeless secrets of happiness.Remember that it's you who decide whether or not you are happy in life.